The Difference Between Winners & Losers

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Alice Cee
February 07, 2025

When you have the courage to do things that other people do not, they will talk.

“Social media is not a real job”
“She’s just doing social media because she’s not good enough to succeed in finance”
“She’s a liar”
“She has no one to talk to so she has to talk to a camera”
“She has to be an influencer because her job is too stressful for her to handle”
“She’s scamming people”

All of the above things have been said directly to me and behind my back.

This is what we call crabs in a bucket.

My response to that is.. what have these people had the courage to do?

1. The courage to believe in yourself when nobody else did.
2. The courage to pick yourself up after multiple failures.
3. The courage to persevere after being humiliated and mocked by your “friends and family”
4. The courage to drag yourself to therapy to handle said “family and friends”
5. The courage to permanently cut these “friends and family” out of your life
6. The courage to ditch and pivot a profitable business that was not in the right direction for your public image.
7. The courage to take responsibility for having payroll.
8. The courage to bear financial risk for ad spend. 

How easy is it to choose the path of least resistance in life, to hate on other successful people, and complain about the world every day!

Going back to the courage question.

The answer is nothing.

They have no courage and absolutely nothing on you.

That’s why they have to say these things.  

Every successful person knows that winning is a choice.

Have a blessed weekend

Xoxo,

Alice